A community for women in their thirties who want real friendships, genuine connection, and events that actually feel good to attend — no cliques, no awkward arrivals, no small talk.
Many women join us because they've moved, changed careers, become mums, gone through breakups — or simply realised their social circle needs a refresh.
Every event is designed to make connection feel natural. Everyone comes solo. Seating is mixed. Conversations flow. No one stands in the corner holding a drink wondering what to do with their hands.
From Ladies Day at the races to festive brunches, book club, cocktail masterclasses, wellness weekends, and goat yoga (yes, really) — there's something in the calendar for every mood.
Everyone arrives alone. No cooler-than-thou table in the corner. We've deliberately designed out the awkward arrival moment.
Place cards, ice-breakers, rotations — little details that make it easy for conversation to happen without anyone having to be "on".
This isn't networking and it's not about being "out there". It's about finding your people — in your thirties, when it matters most.
@courtney.ofc
After moving cities and realising how hard adult friendships had become, Courtney started The Social Thirties as the community she needed herself. What started with a handful of brunches has grown into a community of thousands of women across the UK — and, yes, a Monday night running club too.
"This isn't networking. It's not about being 'out there'. It's about finding your people in your thirties — when friendships matter more than ever."
Revolutionising friendship: how The Social Thirties is fostering social community for women across Warwickshire and beyond.
— Leamington Nub News
Our group chat is where it all starts. Drop in, say hi, and come along to your first event whenever you're ready.
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